I've always loved jewelry, but for a long time, I felt restricted by this unspoken "rule" about matching metals. Gold with gold, silver with silver – it felt like a fashion commandment! But honestly, where's the fun in that? I decided to break free and experiment with mixing metals, and I've discovered it's a fantastic way to add personality and depth to my outfits.
At first, I was really hesitant. I remember thinking that wearing gold earrings with a silver necklace looked totally mismatched. It felt… wrong. Like I hadn't put any thought into my look at all. I was so concerned about clashing that I almost avoided wearing jewelry altogether!
Then, I started noticing other people effortlessly rocking mixed metals. They looked chic and stylish, not at all like they’d made a fashion faux pas. That's when I realized that mixing metals wasn't about haphazardly throwing things together; it was about being deliberate and intentional. I started to explore different ways to combine gold and silver, and I learned a few tricks along the way.
One thing I noticed was that simply pairing separate pieces of different metals sometimes felt a bit off. For example, just a plain gold necklace and a plain silver bracelet didn't always work for me. But when I started layering necklaces – some gold, some silver – and adding a silver ring or bracelet, the whole look became more cohesive and intentional. It felt like a style choice, not an accident.
I even remember when I got my engineering ring in steel and my wedding and engagement rings in platinum. I suddenly had to make a decision – was I going to ditch all my gold jewelry? Of course not! I embraced the mix and matched everything. It was liberating!
So, what did I learn? Here are a few things that helped me embrace the art of mixing metals:
Speaking of rings, I recently discovered some really cool rings at Blingcharming. They have a great selection of unique and edgy pieces. I was particularly drawn to the Anime Attack on Titan Rings. I love how they can add a punk vibe to any outfit. The mix of different styles within the set makes them perfect for combining with other metal jewelry I already own. They are perfect for adding a touch of personality to my everyday look.

I find myself wearing gray gold earrings in my second hole, and my everyday ring is 18kt yellow gold. I wear yellow, white, and rose gold with everything! I don't worry about matching the metals. I even have a variety of Alexis Bittar costume jewelry that’s mixed metal. It all works together because I choose pieces that I love and that reflect my personal style.
Here are some specific tips I've found helpful when mixing metals in my jewelry: